These ideas originally came from imom.com.
1. Compliment his attractiveness.
Let him know that he’s still wanted by letting him know when he looks handsome.
2. Compliment his work ethic.
Working hard every day to provide for a family is a daunting task. Tell your husband that you appreciate how hard he works and that you’re proud of his professional accomplishments.
3. Compliment his skills as a dad.
It’s easy for moms to spend more time second-guessing and correcting dads in the parenting department than complimenting their contribution. When you see your husband making a positive impact on the kids in big ways or small, say so!
4. Compliment him as a spiritual leader.
Leading the family toward deeper relationships with God is another of the huge responsibilities your husband carries. Even if he’s still growing in this role, thanking him for what he gets right can encourage him to keep growing personally and to lead you and the kids with purpose.
5. Compliment him as an athlete.
There’s a little macho streak in every guy that likes to think he’s still got it on the court, the diamond, or the track.
6. Compliment his character.
You may be the only person who knows the sacrifices your husband has made to do what’s right, rather than to simply get ahead. By all means, let him know that you notice his character and integrity and that you’re proud of the man he is.