Every parent wants to be successful at raising their children… but to be a strong parent, you have to work at it.
Dr. Randy Carlson writes on the Family Life Radio website that successful parenting requires intentional living. You have to ask the right questions. Such as, what is your intention for raising your child? And what kind of relationship do you want with your child?
The best place to begin is with God’s intention for your family.
Carlson offers five quick tips as you intentionally get on the same page with your spouse or your child’s other parent.
- Pray daily. Pray (together as a couple, if possible) for your child’s future, career, spouse and life choices and that your child would grow to love God’s Word
- Focus on their individual qualities. Remind them of their unique gifts and value to God (Psalm 139 is a good chapter to talk about).
- Give them space to learn. Don’t jump in and do for them what they’re capable of doing for themselves (Proverbs 22:6 tells parents the importance of directing your child early).
- Consider all of your dreams. Talk to your children about their dreams for the future. Or go after one of your own dreams. It will encourage your children to do the same (Proverbs 13:12 says, Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life.).
- Have realistic expectations. Anytime expectations are greater than reality, disappointment is the result