How can you earn the respect of your peers? We have a few suggestions today from a leadership expert.
Jacqueline Whitmore, writing for Entrepreneur has several suggestions for looking to earn some respect.
First, Be kind.
Always be polite to everyone you meet during the day, from your spouse and children to your co-workers, to the checkout person at the grocery store. Give others the same respect you’d like to receive yourself.
Second, Act respectfully.
Eliminate non-respectful behaviors such as rolling your eyes, concentrating more on your cell phone, or talking over someone. Not only are these actions disrespectful of the person you’re interacting with, they can create a wedge that can become permanent. Instead, foster an environment of respectful listening.
Also, Listen well.
Listening is an active process, not a passive one. Actively listen by taking your own opinions and thoughts out of your mind, and actually hear what the other person is trying to convey. When you practice effective listening skills, you will make others feel important and validated.
Be useful.
People earn respect by always being ready to lend a hand or an ear whenever they’re needed or notice an opportunity to help. Look for opportunities to help that you might have previously overlooked.
And finally, Don’t make excuses.
Your actions are based on your choices and barring some unforeseen circumstance, there is no reason for excuses. Own up to your mistakes and instead of dwelling on them, look for opportunities to move past them and commit to doing better.