Looking for a way to connect with your grandchildren? We have some suggestions for you.
Jim Daly, writing in his daily blog, offers some creative ways to engage your grandchildren.
He says one of the best places to start is to be emotionally available – and physically, too, whenever possible.
Be a consistent sound of applause that cheers them on. Go to their games or music recitals in person. Treat as important — what they see as important, helping them feel loved and valued.
If you can’t actually be there, then text them afterward and ask how things went. It’s as simple as showing interest and letting them know you’re thinking of them.
Daly also writes that it is key to accept them for who they are. Let them see that you know their strengths and their weaknesses and you believe in them still. Focus not just on whatever struggles they may be going through right now, but on where they can be and who they can become.
And while you probably won’t agree with all of their choices, don’t let their decisions become more important than your relationship with them. As long as your connection with them remains open, you have an opportunity to speak into their lives and have a positive influence.
And finally, Daly suggests you say “yes” as often as you can. At least, don’t say “no” immediately. This is one of the fun parts of grandparenting – it gives your grandkids a chance to step outside of the usual structure and schedules that likely govern their lives.